Comments on: The Compulsive Liar http://judysbookshop.com/home/blog/2010/01/the-compulsive-liar/ another extension to Judy's Bookshop Thu, 04 Mar 2010 19:40:33 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: josurr http://judysbookshop.com/home/blog/2010/01/the-compulsive-liar/comment-page-1/#comment-67 josurr Sun, 28 Feb 2010 01:37:22 +0000 http://judysbookshop.com/home/blog/?p=134#comment-67 Hello, as you may already discovered I'm fresh here. In first steps it is really nice if someone supports you, so hope to meet friendly and helpful people here. Let me know if I can help you. Thanks and good luck everyone! ;) Hello, as you may already discovered I’m fresh here.
In first steps it is really nice if someone supports you, so hope to meet friendly and helpful people here. Let me know if I can help you.
Thanks and good luck everyone! ;)

]]> By: WP Themes http://judysbookshop.com/home/blog/2010/01/the-compulsive-liar/comment-page-1/#comment-8 WP Themes Tue, 19 Jan 2010 08:17:41 +0000 http://judysbookshop.com/home/blog/?p=134#comment-8 Amiable post and this enter helped me alot in my college assignement. Thank you for your information. Amiable post and this enter helped me alot in my college assignement. Thank you for your information.

]]> By: admin http://judysbookshop.com/home/blog/2010/01/the-compulsive-liar/comment-page-1/#comment-6 admin Tue, 12 Jan 2010 05:37:36 +0000 http://judysbookshop.com/home/blog/?p=134#comment-6 And this addresses the compulsive liar how? One odd thing I noticed in your comment is this reference to sexual arousal. I was spanked as a child and I don't remember ever being sexually aroused. Where does this concept come from? I doubt anyone would consider spanking their child after the age of 18 - after the age of 16 for that matter. This concept of protecting the child even from his own parents' discipline, is the underlying reasons for things like school shootings. Where does one draw the line? And this addresses the compulsive liar how? One odd thing I noticed in your comment is this reference to sexual arousal. I was spanked as a child and I don’t remember ever being sexually aroused. Where does this concept come from?
I doubt anyone would consider spanking their child after the age of 18 – after the age of 16 for that matter.

This concept of protecting the child even from his own parents’ discipline, is the underlying reasons for things like school shootings. Where does one draw the line?

]]> By: PDeverit http://judysbookshop.com/home/blog/2010/01/the-compulsive-liar/comment-page-1/#comment-5 PDeverit Tue, 12 Jan 2010 02:49:18 +0000 http://judysbookshop.com/home/blog/?p=134#comment-5 People used to think it was necessary to "spank" adult members of the community, military trainees, and prisoners. In some countries they still do. In our country, it is considered sexual assault if a person over the age of 18 is "spanked", but only if over the age of 18. For one thing, buttock-battering can vibrate the pudendal nerve, which can lead to sexual arousal in some people. There are numerous other physiological ways in which it can be sexually abusive, but I won't list them all here. One can use the resources I've posted if they want to learn more. Child bottom-battering/slapping vs. DISCIPLINE: Child bottom-battering (euphemistically labeled "spanking","swatting","switching","smacking", "paddling",or other cute-sounding names) for the purpose of gaining compliance is nothing more than an inherited bad habit. Its a good idea for people to take a look at what they are doing, and learn how to DISCIPLINE instead of hit. I think the reason why television shows like "Supernanny" and "Dr. Phil" are so popular is because that is precisely what many (not all) people are trying to do. There are several reasons why child bottom-slapping isn't a good idea. Here are some good, quick reads recommended by professionals: Plain Talk About Spanking by Jordan Riak, The Sexual Dangers of Spanking Children by Tom Johnson, NO VITAL ORGANS THERE, So They Say by Lesli Taylor M.D. and Adah Maurer Ph.D. Most compelling of all reasons to abandon this worst of all bad habits is the fact that buttock-battering can be unintentional sexual abuse for some children. There is an abundance of educational resources, testimony, documentation, etc available on the subject that can easily be found by doing a little research with the recommended reads-visit the website of Parents and Teachers Against Violence In Education at www.nospank.net. Just a handful of those helping to raise awareness of why child bottom-slapping isn't a good idea: American Academy of Pediatrics, American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, American Psychological Association, Center For Effective Discipline, Churches' Network For Non-Violence, Nobel Peace Prize recipient Archbishop Desmond Tutu, Parenting In Jesus' Footsteps, Global Initiative To End All Corporal Punishment of Children, United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child. In 26 countries, child corporal punishment is prohibited by law (with more in process). In fact, the US was the only UN member that did not ratify the Convention on the Rights of the Child. People used to think it was necessary to “spank” adult members of the community, military trainees, and prisoners. In some countries they still do. In our country, it is considered sexual assault if a person over the age of 18 is “spanked”, but only if over the age of 18.

For one thing, buttock-battering can vibrate the pudendal nerve, which can lead to sexual arousal in some people. There are numerous other physiological ways in which it can be sexually abusive, but I won’t list them all here. One can use the resources I’ve posted if they want to learn more.

Child bottom-battering/slapping vs. DISCIPLINE:

Child bottom-battering (euphemistically labeled “spanking”,”swatting”,”switching”,”smacking”, “paddling”,or other cute-sounding names) for the purpose of gaining compliance is nothing more than an inherited bad habit.

Its a good idea for people to take a look at what they are doing, and learn how to DISCIPLINE instead of hit.

I think the reason why television shows like “Supernanny” and “Dr. Phil” are so popular is because that is precisely what many (not all) people are trying to do.

There are several reasons why child bottom-slapping isn’t a good idea. Here are some good, quick reads recommended by professionals:

Plain Talk About Spanking
by Jordan Riak,

The Sexual Dangers of Spanking Children
by Tom Johnson,

NO VITAL ORGANS THERE, So They Say
by Lesli Taylor M.D. and Adah Maurer Ph.D.

Most compelling of all reasons to abandon this worst of all bad habits is the fact that buttock-battering can be unintentional sexual abuse for some children. There is an abundance of educational resources, testimony, documentation, etc available on the subject that can easily be found by doing a little research with the recommended reads-visit the website of Parents and Teachers Against Violence In Education at http://www.nospank.net.

Just a handful of those helping to raise awareness of why child bottom-slapping isn’t a good idea:

American Academy of Pediatrics,
American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry,
American Psychological Association,
Center For Effective Discipline,
Churches’ Network For Non-Violence,
Nobel Peace Prize recipient Archbishop Desmond Tutu,
Parenting In Jesus’ Footsteps,
Global Initiative To End All Corporal Punishment of Children,
United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child.

In 26 countries, child corporal punishment is prohibited by law (with more in process). In fact, the US was the only UN member that did not ratify the Convention on the Rights of the Child.

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